My journey to liberated sexuality has been dense and bodacious! I've struggled alot and have healed alot. The tools and the empathy I've gained along the way are fruitful - and I want to share them with you.
Below I share my story. It's intimate. It's vulnerable. It's here to show you the transformations that are possible in this world, with a little support.
Content notes: catholicism, sexual shame, abuse, trauma, pregnancy, abortion, disability, eating disorder, diet culture, white settler,
I stand with:
Sex Workers, Street-Based Workers, Survival Workers, FSSWorkers, Ethical Pornographers, Pro-Dommes, Strippers, Pole Dancers, Phone Operators, Cammers
& all other folx monetizing their sexual talents. Decriminalization is necessary.
Disabled Folx, Folx in Chronic Pain, Disability Justice,
Free Health Care, Transparent Accessibility.
Fat Folx, Fat Liberation.
Indigenous Folx, Black Folx, People of Colour, Immigrants.
Queer Folx, Non-Binary Folx, Trans Folx, Asexual Folx, Women.
Free Housing, Free Health Care, Prison Abolition, Harm Reduction.
Nature, Earth, Plants, Animals, Beings.
Here is a list of my training:
Somatic Sexual Education Certification
Plant Spirit Medicine Mentorship - Julie Gaia
Boss Witch - by Pussy Witch
Erotic Dominance Training - by Elemental Eros
Yoni, Lingam & Prostate Massage Course - by Beducated
SOVEREIGN: Feminine Leadership Training & Graduate Program - by Elemental Eros
Online Grief Literacy™ Training: Level 1 - by Being Here, Human
Reiki Level 1
BA in Sociology
BFA in Integrated Media (Fine Arts)
Cosmic Daddy Issues - Xris and Pip
Herbal Care for Survivors of Sexual Violence - Catherine Feliz
Fuck the Pain Away - Caz Killjoy
Indigenizing BDSM - Sir Wambot
Discovering your Erotic Core - by Caritia, Karada House
Kink & Trauma - by Emma Steel
Communication Skills for SWers - by Cameryn Moore
Sex Magic Rituals - by Dion de Rossi
Spank Therapy - by Ze Royale
Polyamory for Empaths - by Melissa Tofton
Trauma Informed Polyamory - by Clementine Morrigan
Squirting from a Queer-Materialist Perspective by Stella Rutkat
The Dark Masculine - by Celeste Pomegranate
Queer Rope UnConference - by Karada House
Playing with Breath - by Caritia, Karada House
Awakening Your Sexual Potential: Tantra Orgasms for Men & Women - by
Ontario College of Traditional Chinese Medicine
Sex, Work & Disability (panel) - PorYes
Queering Sex Ed (panel) - Queering Sex Ed
Trauma-Informed Consensual Touch - by Caitlin K. Roberts
Playground Conference 2018
Suicide intervention for weirdos, freaks and queers - by Carly Boyce
Mapping the Mind with Mushrooms Conference 2018
Jade Egg Exploration and Sexual Empowerement Playshop - by Amrita O’Hara
Self Care in Consensual Non-Monogamy - by Love Plus +
Remix, Open Floor - by Mayero Bouman
A Room of Our Own, Writting Grief - by Being Here, Human
Explore More Summit 2020
I have a big fuck yes for radical softness, swampy transformation & truth.
Things that are not welcome during my sessions are: whorephobia, disablism, fatphobia, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, racism, classicism, or any other discrimination.
I foster a space for self-responsibility - where we both are
responsible for our wellbeing - while also acknowledging the power structures between us.
If you're a cis-man - I especially expect you to be accountable to your privileges.
I want to be accountable to you.
I ask that you call me in, as much as possible, and use my anonymous feedback forms if desired.
As much as I would love to be, I am not perfect. I sometimes make mistakes. If I cause any form of harm in this workshop, I am willing and happy to hold space and take accountability. You're welcome to reach me through any of the methods below.
Accountability Pal: coming soon