SO, WHO AM I?

I’m a queer, fat, Mad,  disabled, spoonie womn witch with white and cis-privileges. 

I'm an educator, an artist, a filmmaker, a smutmaker,  a space holder & a dreamer

I'm a Pisces Rising, Leo Sun, Aquarius Moon who lives by the phases of the moon.

I'm a traumatized polyamorous person and I struggle with it. 

I'm an anxiously attached human working towards feeling secure and trusting.

I'm a spoonie learning more each day about how to regulate my nervous system.

I coregulate with the stars and moon and turtle shell. 

I sing to plants, talk to objects and hug trees. Cedar cracks my heart open.

I'm a natural space holder.

WHAT ARE MY VALUES?

I stand with

Sex Workers, Street-Based Workers, Survival Workers, FSSWorkers, Ethical Pornographers, Pro-Dommes, Strippers, Pole Dancers, Phone Operators, Cammers

& all other folx monetizing their sexual talents.

Decriminalization.

Disabled Folx, Disability Justice, Free Health Care, Transparent Accessibility.

Fat Folx, Fat Liberation.

Indigenous Folx, Black Folx, People of Colour, Immigrants.

Queer Folx, Non-Binary Folx, Trans Folx, Asexual Folx, Women.

Free Housing, Free Health Care, Prison Abolition, Harm Reduction.

Nature, Earth, Plants, Animals, Beings.

 
 

WHAT

ARE MY TRAININGS ?

TRAININGS:

Boss Witch - by Pussy Witch 

Erotic Dominance Training - by  Elemental Eros

Yoni, Lingam & Prostate Massage Course - by Beducated 

SOVEREIGN: Feminine Leadership Training & Graduate Program - by Elemental Eros 

Online Grief Literacy™ Training: Level 1 - by Being Here, Human

Business consultations with Luna Matatas

Reiki Level 1

BA in Sociology 

BFA in Integrated Media (performance, installation, electronics, video)

 

FUTURE:

Somatic Sexual Education Certification 

WORKSHOPS: 

Discovering your Erotic Core - by Caritia, Karada House

Kink & Trauma - by Emma Steel

Communication Skills for SWers - by Cameryn Moore 

Sex Magic Rituals - by Dion de Rossi 

Spank Therapy - by Ze Royale 

Polyamory for Empaths - by Melissa Tofton

Trauma Informed Polyamory - by Clementine Morrigan 

Squirting from a Queer-Materialist Perspective by Stella Rutkat

The Dark Masculine - by Celeste Pomegranate 

Queer Rope UnConference - by Karada House  

Playing with Breath - by Caritia, Karada House 

Awakening Your Sexual Potential: Tantra Orgasms for Men & Women - by

Ontario College of Traditional Chinese Medicine

Sex, Work & Disability (panel) - PorYes

Queering Sex Ed (panel) - Queering Sex Ed

Trauma-Informed Consensual Touch - by Caitlin K. Roberts

Playground Conference 2018

Suicide intervention for weirdos, freaks and queers - by Carly Boyce 

Mapping the Mind with Mushrooms Conference 2018

Jade Egg Exploration and Sexual Empowerement Playshop - by Amrita O’Hara

Self Care in Consensual Non-Monogamy - by Love Plus +

Remix, Open Floor - by Mayero Bouman

A Room of Our Own, Writting Grief - by Being Here, Human

Explore More Summit 2020

LIFE EXPERIENCE:

life as a fat person

life as a disabled person with chronic pain, mobility difficulty, C-PTSD, AutoImmune Disease, Scoliosis, PolyCystic Ovarian Syndrom, Endometriosis

10 years of 1-1 psychotherapy 

what are my policies?

I have a big fuck yes for sex-positivity, body-celebration and inclusivity.

Things that are not welcome during my sessions are: sexism, heterosexism, homophobia, transphobia, racism, fatphobia, disableism, classicism, or any other discrimination. 

I foster a space for self-responsibility - where we both are responsible for our wellbeing - while also acknowledging the power structures between us.

I will not respond to time wasters. Please fill out the bookings form, emails and intake forms to the fullest of your ability. 

If you're a cis-man - I especially expect you to be accountable to your privileges.

I want to be accountable to you.

I ask that you call me in, as much as possible, and use my anonymous feedback forms if desired.

 

Pricing

One of my core values is economic accessibility. Therefore, my pricing is PWYC & dependent on your socio-political identity.

My 1-1 rate is:

40-300$/hour

When deciding how much you will pay me, please consider:

About me:

-I'm relatively new in this field.

-For every hour of 1-1 coaching, I usually prepare for 2 hours.

-I'm currently an underemployed SWer

with physical disabilities &CPTSD. 

About you:

-the privilege or lack of privilege with which you operate in the world

-the currency, regularity & rate of your income

-anyone who depends on you financially

-what feels accessible to you

*Please note that my rate increases if the session includes:

explicit sexual exchange.